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Experienced legal guidance with a compassionate, personalized approach to family law.

New Jersey Divorce and Family Law Attorneys
Abatemarco Thomlison & Frantz, LLC

We are a divorce and family law firm dedicated to putting clients first.

Our client-focused philosophy ensures that your unique story and needs are at the heart of everything we do. With a collaborative team approach, our experienced attorneys work together to provide comprehensive and innovative legal solutions tailored to your specific circumstances.

At Abatemarco Thomlison & Frantz, LLC, we pride ourselves on delivering creative and effective strategies to achieve the best possible outcomes for our clients. Let us guide you through your family law matters with compassion, experience, and unwavering support.

What Sets Us Apart

We are commmited to providing compassionate legal representation during some of life's most challenging moments.

Client Focus - Our client-centered process enables you to participate in decisions that affect your outcome.
Team Approach - Become a part of our team of professionals – even financial advisors, accountants, and therapists when required – dedicated to a positive outcome for you.
Creative Solutions - We brainstorm, strategize, innovate and execute unique ways to protect your interests.
Efficiency - We strive to keep your costs down. Mediation and negotiation are better, faster, cheaper when possible… but when the other party won’t deal, we will zealously litigate your matter.

Unwavering Support.
Legal Guidance You Can Count On

At Abatemarco Thomlison & Frantz, LLC, we understand that matters involving family law can be some of the most challenging and emotional times in your life. We are here to listen to your story with empathy and respect, acknowledging the profound impact these situations have on your life.

Our team is committed to providing compassionate and comprehensive legal support, tailored to meet your specific needs. We strive to secure the best possible outcomes for our clients, ensuring your voice is heard and your goals are achieved. With a steadfast focus on integrity and excellence, we are here to guide you through every step, offering unwavering support and legal advice during this difficult period.

What We Do

At Abatemarco Thomlison & Frantz, LLC, we are exclusively dedicated to divorce and family law in New Jersey. This means that we stay current with the latest legal developments and precedents, ensuring that our clients receive the most informed and effective representation possible.

Whether you are facing a straightforward or highly complex case, our experience and skill allow us to handle any type of family law matter with confidence and competence.

Mediation

also can be better, faster, more efficient than a court battle: Divorce mediation uses a specially skilled neutral professional to help both parties come to a peaceful resolution

Divorce Litigation

the least desirable but often the only way to deal with a particularly intransigent adversary: if your matter must be litigated, our team will fight to protect you and your children.

Child Custody

is complicated, intense and distressing. Be sure you have the ATF law team on your side. Review our client testimonials to see how we have helped.

Child Support

is about the wellbeing of your child. Whether you are paying or receiving, our award-winning team fights for fairness.

Parenting Time

can be gut-wrenching, ego- driven, vengeance-seeking battles. We will work with you to develop innovative solutions to what could be a lose/lose mess.

Alimony

disputes can be a minefield. Settlement? Modification? Compliance? Enforcement? It can be confusing and painfully contentious. Miscalculation can be costly. Call on ATF Law to be your guide.

Equitable Distribution of property

raises countless questions. Who gets what? Why? What is fair? Are all assets at play? When does the court decide? What variables do courts consider? There is little margin for error here.

Restraining Orders

are one of the most desperate and frightening things a person can experience. A Restraining Order can offer protection for a victim or set the case for an uphill custody battle in the future. Either way, the attorneys at ATF Law can help. Procrastination can be devastating.

Collaborative Law

can be better, faster, more efficient … and potentially less stressful to avoid going to court! Collaborative Law can provide a constructive resolution to a seemingly irreconcilable nightmare.

Are you facing a family law or divorce matter and need guidance?

Our experienced attorneys are here to provide you with the legal guidance and support you need. Contact us today!

Our Team

Matthew R. Abatemarco, Esq.

is former president of the Jersey Shore Collaborative Law Group. Given his experience as a problem solver, he is often selected as a Mediator and Arbitrator by his colleagues. Matthew served as a Law Clerk to the Honorable Patricia B. Roe, former Presiding Judge of the Family Court in Burlington and Ocean Counties. Matthew has spoken at NJICLE, NJAPM, as well as NJSCPA seminars.

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Gregory B. Thomlison, Esq.

is frequently appointed by his colleagues as a Mediator and routinely volunteers as an Early Settlement Panelist to assist the Court in resolving disputed matrimonial cases. Greg has been appointed by the Courts as Guardian ad Litem to assist incapacitated individuals. Greg also served as a Law Clerk to the Honorable Patricia B. Roe, former Presiding Judge of the Family Court in Burlington and Ocean Counties.

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Wm. Robert Frantz, Esq.

is a graduate of the Pennsylvania State University and Rutgers School of Law – Camden. After graduating law school, Rob was an Asst. District Attorney for the City of Philadelphia for over a decade before transitioning to the practice of Family Law. In his time as an Assistant District Attorney, Rob was assigned to the Major Trials Unit and prosecuted thousands of dangerous criminal defendants including both bench and jury trials.

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What Are Clients Are Saying

Abatemarco Thomlison & Frantz, LLC

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Janet Felice

14:24 10 Jul 24

Navigating the complexities of a divorce is one of the most challenging experiences in life and finding the right attorney to guide you through the process is crucial. When I was in the divorce process, I attended a group - "Surviving Divorce- Hope and healing for the Catholic family". It is there where I met Matthew Abatemarco. He volunteered his time to answer any questions from participants in the group. He went above and beyond to provide support, offering practical advice and resources that were instrumental in helping me navigate the emotional and legal complexities of divorce. He incorporates values in his practice emphasizing compassion, integrity and fairness. His genuine care for the group provided me with a sense of peace and trust that was invaluable during such a challenging time. I highly recommend Matt to anyone in need of a compassionate and competent advocate during the difficult process of divorce.

Alissa Garcia

12:49 10 Jul 24

I had the pleasure of working with Matthew as my mediator for my divorce and I couldn't be more satisfied with the experience. From start to finish, Matthew was incredibly responsive, always available to address any concerns or questions promptly.Matthew's fairness and impartiality were evident throughout the process. He ensured that all parties were treated equally and with respect, fostering an environment of trust and cooperation. His attention to detail was remarkable, leaving no stone unturned and ensuring that every aspect of the mediation was thoroughly addressed.What truly set Matthew apart was his heartfelt approach. He demonstrated genuine empathy and understanding, making the experience much more comforting during a challenging time. His insights were invaluable, providing clarity and guidance when needed the most.Additionally, Matthew's professional staff contributed to the overall positive experience. They were courteous, efficient, and supportive, making the process smooth and stress-free.Matthew's combination of legal knowledge and compassion made him an exceptional mediator. His ability to balance the technical aspects of mediation with a human touch was truly commendable. I highly recommend Matthew to anyone in need of mediation services.

Raymond DeSibio

23:54 09 Jul 24

I met Matt several years ago through my Divorce Ministry Group and wished I knew him sooner. Matt is the most honest lawyer I know. He is a gift to anyone who knows him and has worked with him. Matt has helped countless people through their times of struggles through their divorce and separation. He is a wealth of information and always gives freely to help and guide people by giving them the best information for their particular situation so they can make the best decision moving forward.Matt comes to our divorce ministry during our hope and healing program anytime we need him. He comes with only one purpose....to help and care for our people in need. Matt asks for nothing in return. Knowing he has helped folks in need is his truth. I wish I knew him and had his help and guidance while I was going through my divorce. He is an amazing human being and I would highly recommended him to anyone.

James Cook

22:56 09 Jul 24

Matt guided us through a tough time in our lives with empathy, respect, and being very direct. I appreciate all he did to reign in the conversation and focus on the issue at hand.

Elaine Anzalone

17:50 09 Jul 24

I have known Matt Abatemarco for many years. I have had the privilege of working with him in Christian divorce ministry, a ministry established to help those struggling with divorce or separation, with the goal of attaining hope and healing and ultimately, restoration. Matt has been one of our greatest advocates, always willing to lend support. He has come to speak to our support groups to educate, to offer compassion and to answer the many difficult questions surrounding this hard journey. He never gives legal advice. He never solicits clients. He emphasizes working as best as possible with your spouse so that there is a workable, hopeful outcome for both spouses and certainly any children. He emphasizes the importance of being fair and even tempered and seeking other resources when you are struggling or hurting. Matt has the highest degree of integrity. Through others who pass through our doors, we have heard how pleased people have been who have used Matt’s services whether as a mediator, or in a lawyer role.Matt assists the process by bringing honesty and clarity and measured advice. He is objective, professional and invested in helping people move forward from the wounds of divorce. For Matt, it always about TRULY making a difference before any personal gain. I could not be more grateful for a professional with this work ethic, as they are few and far between. If you are in need of legal services, I highly recommend Matt with zero hesitation!

Michael Connors

01:39 09 Jul 24

Divorce was the Hardest thing I have ever gone through in my life. The first time I met Matt Abatemarco I knew I was in good hands. He was Very Professional and Very Ethical. He took his time to explain how the whole process of Divorce with a Mediator worked . I highly recommend Matt.

Our Family Attorneys Can Help

Bring Your Future Into Focus

Experienced legal guidance with a compassionate, personalized approach to family law.

New Jersey Divorce and Family Law Attorneys
Abatemarco Thomlison & Frantz, LLC

What Sets Us Apart

We are commmited to providing compassionate legal representation during some of life's most challenging moments.

Unwavering Support.
Legal Guidance You Can Count On

What We Do